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Mistress in Lisbon, Portugal - Catarina is the most professional dominatrix in Lisbon, Portugal. Domination, BDSM, Femdom, Kink, Fetish Queen & High-class companion - kinky-cat.com

FAQ (FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS)

1. Do you work with any agency or are you 100% independent?

No agencies, no scams. I am my own boss! When you text/call, you talk to me!


2. Are you available 24/7? Can I book you anytime (incall or outcall)?

I'm a "hustler" who works 7 days a week but I'm not available 24hrs! I do my best to schedule my sessions and my agenda is flexible (however) it's easier if you contact me as far in advance as possible. 1 or 2 days to plan better or at least 4 hours prior notice. Otherwise, it's a question of luck! I might be available at the moment or not. It's important to underline that I'm not a full-time escort and I don't stay indoors all day answering calls and waiting for customers. I have other businesses to run in between. I will make time whenever you contact me with a serious intention to book my services. 


3. Do you work from home? Can I meet you at "your place"?
I don't work from home. When you book an incall, you meet me at my workplace (a private studio or a private room) never at my house!

4. Do you offer 30 min. sessions?
Not at the moment. The minimum time is one hour.


5. Can I negotiate the price?
My 1-hour rate isn't in any case negotiable. When you book me for multiple hours, overnight, travel, or a couple of days, then yes, we can negotiate. If you want to get on my good side, don't try to "bargain" the price. 


6. I had some bad experiences before with fake escorts! How do I know you're real? Can I ask you for face pics or a quick videocall?
First of all, I'm verified on every website where I pay for advertising. You can see a watermark in the photos proving it. Secondly, I have many reviews there from clients who booked my services and recommend me. What I usually do to make you feel more confident is to send you a couple of non-professional "selfie" photos taken with a phone at my photoshoots or at my workplace wearing the same outfits that you saw on my ads. I don't send face pics or do any "quick" video calls. 


7. I have a "great deal" to propose to you... Can I meet you first to see you and discuss this? Maybe have a drink with you (for free without any confirmation)?
Of course not. I suggest you stick with dating apps to meet girls for free. In my experience, if you had a great deal to propose, you would call directly and go straight to the point instead of texting me with this type of "tempting offer". I'm open to giving you as much info as possible. But don't ask me to participate in this kind of "audition" ok? I'm a professional and I provide a service. My time is money... so if you're not sure if you want to pay for it, don't book it and look for somebody else. Simple as that. 


8. I'm new to all of this. What if I don't like the experience? Can I get a refund?
If you're a "newbie", you might want to relax and start with something soft like one of my sensual massages for example. This way, you can be sure you enjoy the experience with a professional masseuse. I don't refund anybody. And once again, if you're not sure, don't do it. 


9. I'm not 18 years old yet. Can I book a session?
No. I don't accept underage guys. Even if you tell me you're an adult, I'll figure it out on the phone or require you to show me your ID when we meet if I suspect you're still a minor.


10. I'm a very young man but an adult (and still a virgin) can I book you for my first time?
Yes. You can also write to me beforehand about your fantasies, how you imagine them, the things you would be comfortable with, and things you wouldn't.


11. I'm a basic guy. Not interested in any of your kink services or sensual massages. I'm here to figure out if you provide "full-service"? Because it's not clear on your ads if you offer A-LEVEL, OWO, CIM, COF, BBS, MSOG, etc...

I don't provide any of those services. That's why you can't find them in my ads. 


12. Do you have a "girlfriend" to join us? Is the other girl included or extra?
I have a nice colleague who can join us for a threesome. She's also an escort, not my "girlfriend" and obviously, she's not included. Her participation is extra.  


13. Do you work with your "boyfriend"? When I book a cuckolding session (or MFM threesome) is the other guy included or extra?
Whether you book him for a cuckolding session or a threesome, his participation is extra. He's not my "boyfriend" and he's not included. He's a colleague who joins whenever he's requested just like the girl does. 


14. We are two friends, we want an MFM threesome. Is the rate the same for 1hr with 2 guys?
No. the rate is always higher whenever there is one more participant.


15. We are a group of guys. Are you open to gangbangs?
No, I'm not into gangbangs.


16. We are a couple, is it the same rate or do I have to pay extra if my GF/wife participates?
Yes, you have to pay extra. If she participates, it's a session for couples. It's important to note that I'm not bisexual or lesbian. I don't "go gay for pay" like the majority of escorts who lie about their orientation and fake it. I want you to know what to expect from me without disappointment. 


17. In terms of payments, how does it work? Do I have to pay a deposit first? What if something comes up and I need to cancel? Will you refund me? The escorts that I meet regularly accept the payment at the end...
Well, if the escorts that you meet regularly let you pay at the end, that's because you're THEIR regular client, not mine. I always ask you for the payment first as a precaution.

This is how I work: When you're interested in booking an incall session, I'll certainly ask you for a deposit of 50% and you can pay the remaining amount in cash when we meet before our session starts. When it's an outcall session (in the city where I am based) the process is simpler! The pre-payment of a deposit won't be required (it's optional) and you can pay me directly in cash when I arrive. If you are calling from a different city, then again, I'll ask you for a deposit. (Read questions 27, 28, 29) for +info about this!

In case something goes wrong and you miss our meeting after paying the deposit of 50% this amount will be kept and used to reschedule a future real-time session.


18. Can I pay with a credit card, PayPal, crypto, or any other method? Or only cash?
Yes, you can pay me by other methods as well. Not only cash.


19. Different currencies as well or only euros?
I also accept Pounds, Swiss francs, and Dollars. 


20. Do you provide webcam sessions? 
I'm not a "cam girl" and I don't work from home. I only offer video calls (exclusively and exceptionally) to my findom customers as a reward and my regulars. Even with the pandemic outbreak, I never implemented this service for unknown clients and it's not in my plans to do so.

21. I'm new to Findom. What kind of practices should I start with?

I suggest you start with the basics like sending me gifts from my wish list or small contributions. 

 

22. I'm an experienced "paypig" and familiar with your Findom list. Will you consider practicing other forms of Findom with me? 

(this is the longest answer, skip it if you're not really interested in this topic)

In my opinion, it would only make sense to move on to other forms of findom, once you built some kind of "relationship" with your Fin Domme first. And that is only possible by starting with the basics (on my list) besides, I don't see myself moving towards other practices (that are much more serious) in an amateur way, as I see others doing... What I mean by this is that IF I decided to take it to the next level, you would have to sign A REAL CONTRACT, not those "findom agreements" that are a joke in the eyes of the law! I'm sure there are ways of doing it professionally respecting the privacy of both without mentioning any of these activities. But before you would also have to go through a rigorous process of selection... A previous interview with a lawyer would be arranged (to clarify the terms and conditions of a possible deal), your PERSONAL DATA would be analyzed (to figure out if you could afford it without causing any sort of financial ruin/bankruptcy) and your psychological profile would have to be evaluated as well to assure that you're SANE and making a decision VOLUNTARILY and CONSCIOUSLY. I still believe this whole "pay-pigs/money-slaves" hype is very misleading and can go VERY WRONG! The vast majority of Fin Dommes that I see out there aren't even experienced with any sort of domination in real-time. Apparently, they just do it virtually... Well, I don't really believe in easy money and something that is supposed to be fun, and for your sexual arousal can turn into a crime of extortion very easily... Even though no one is pointing a gun at your head and forcing you to do anything, you have the upper hand... so you can sue your Fin Domme whenever you want. Besides, who tells me you're not one of those scammers/time-wasters who just want to get my attention and some virtual content for free? This can be highly controversial and that's why I don't go deeper on financial domination for now.

23. I'm a beginner in the BDSM world. I want to explore it but I'm not into hardcore stuff. I don't like being subjected to hard pain, marks, or humiliation. Can you combine some soft and sensual domination with other escorting services that you provide in the same session?

Yes, I can combine both services and I recommend planning a session of 2 hours at least. There are many soft and fun practices that we can play out with... and nothing better than taking the time to explore as much as you can in one session to get the best out of the experience.

 

24. You seem very precautious. You never show your face or post photos of your sessions exposing your submissive clients. I also figured that you don't have an account on "OnlyFans" or any other social media platforms. Is privacy a big deal for you? 

Absolutely! Nowadays, with the existing technology, keeping our privacy and discretion is an act of wisdom and intelligence. I believe that being a private person is extremely important in this activity and that's probably one of the reasons why most clients become my regulars. Because they feel safe to go out with me in public or invite me to their private residences. They sense that I respect their privacy 100% and I know how to separate both worlds... I'm very well-organized and content in my private and professional life outside the sex industry and I want to keep it that way. That's why I don't show my face and protect my identity. Besides, the country where I work most of the time is my birthplace while other girls who show their faces come from Brazil and Eastern Europe. Nobody knows them, they do this activity full-time, and it's all they have here basically. They have nothing to lose! It's common to find these women exposing themselves everywhere (webcam sites, free classified ads, free social media platforms, and so on...) Do you think they care about your privacy if they don't even protect theirs? I don't think so. Allowing any sex worker to take pictures of you naked and bound with a dildo in your mouth or in a jacuzzi together (not wearing any mask covering your face) is a HUGE risk and you're either stupid or very naive if you allow such a thing. "What goes on the internet, stays on the internet forever". A man in his right mind will choose carefully with whom he shares his intimacy and spends his time and money. 

25. I have a hard time finding a Domme who's demanding and a "pro" but also beautiful and sexy. Most look aged, unattractive, or out of shape. Besides, they're not into teasing, seducing, or intimate worship. They say that these are not "pro domination" services. Anyway, I know there are pro-dommes who do it (some of them are quite famous internationally) and I get confused. Aren't both equally considered pro dominatrices or do I have to search for fetish escorts to get the experience that I'm looking for?

This is a very pertinent question that I get asked all the time. And I'll make this clear, once and for all:

Yes, they're BOTH considered professional dominatrices! Although with different styles and limits. I have noticed that there's a lack of sense of community in the BDSM world from this particular type of dominatrix you refer to. In fact, these are frigid menopausal women whose sexuality is repressed. And many of them have low self-esteem due to their appearance. So they try to distort reality and brainwash you by saying that any practice that is more audacious or sexual is forbidden, considered unprofessional, and categorized as "sex work" and obviously they are not sex workers... (smirk) Ok, let's get this straight for those out there who think they're better than anyone else and need a "reality slap" to wake up: If the purpose of those women either for a living or as a side-line business is to facilitate the sexual arousal of another human being AND they get money for that service... they are sex workers too! Period. It doesn't matter if they sit on your face with panties on or without. If they touch your genitals to tie your balls or to give you a handjob. Playing the "serious woman" card in this specific industry in order to look superior and diminish other professionals is simply pathetic. Where is the open mind?! I see pure hypocrisy and a lack of common sense. These judgemental dominatrices should get over themselves and realize that they're not selling bibles... Each one sets HER OWN limits and rules and it must be respected! End of.

26. I like to switch roles. Will you be submissive as well? By the way, what are your limits in the BDSM field?
No, I don't switch roles. But I provide a "duo experience" with a submissive girl where you and I dominate her. I'm very open to new BDSM practices! However, my limits are:
- I don't do ANY submissive roleplay.
- I don't provide toilet training.
- I will NEVER accept ANY kind of play with animals or kids!

27. Do you travel inside and outside Europe? Is one day trip possible? Do I have to transfer the money first or can I pay when you arrive? Who books your flights?

I travel inside Europe (only) for now. A one-day trip is not possible. 2 days (minimum) must be agreed upon. A deposit of 50% is required + the flight's cost. I would rather book them myself and you book the hotel. When we meet, you pay the other 50% in cash. You can also give me your contact so I can notify you, whenever I come to your city on tour. 

28. I know you're based in Lisbon but would you come to Cascais/Sintra/Ericeira/Peniche for a session? Would you visit me at my villa (private residence) or only hotels?
Sure, I also operate in those cities near Lisbon. I visit hotels and private villas as well. 

29. I live in the Algarve. Would you come to the south to meet me?
Yes, and we can do it in 2 different ways:
1- You book me a few days in advance (for 3hrs minimum). A deposit of 50% is required + extra (for tolls and diesel expenses)
2- You give me your contact and when I'm on tour in the south, I'll let you know. I generally go there for work on weekends in April, May, June, and September. Makes it easier! You can confirm on the same day and the 3-hour minimum requirement will no longer apply. Can be 1 or 2hrs, since I'm already around.

30. I have friends/business partners who live here/come here often. If I recommend you, do I get any benefit? 

Absolutely. When you recommend me to a friend and he is a respectful customer just like you, I'll reward you by offering 30min. extra in your next session or I can give you a discount if you prefer.

31. I want to book you for overnight as soon as I am free from work. We're going to have dinner and drinks first. I might feel a little tired for "some action" when we get back. Can we compensate in the morning before you leave?

Of course, we can. 

32. What kind of safety precautions are you taking against covid-19?

Even before the pandemic, my measures of hygiene were always strict. My facilities are properly equipped with AC, a shower cabin, and always disinfected before and after you leave. Clean sheets and towels are also provided to take a shower before and after each session. However, with the pandemic outbreak, and thinking about your safety and comfort, I have implemented a few extra "CLEAN and SAFE" measures so you can be relaxed and enjoy your time whether is an in-call or out-call appointment.
- Alcohol-based hand sanitizers provided 
- non-contact temperature screening checks
- Covid-19 rapid antigen tests "swab" (for mutual detection) 
*When I visit you (outcall) I can bring the equipment with me.
*Covid-19 quick testing is not included in my hourly rate, I charge an extra fee (the test cost) when you request it on pre-booking reservation. The test IS NOT and WILL NEVER BE mandatory (it's optional) your choice. There's nothing to fear but fear itself. Don't let this situation take away your joy, freedom, and damage your mental health. Stay strong and optimistic.

 FINAL NOTES

I LIKE TO KEEP IT SIMPLE. EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS A TRANSACTION AND HAS A PRICE... SO, REALIZE THAT YOU WON'T GET ANYTHING FROM ME WITHOUT GIVING SOMETHING IN EXCHANGE! MY TIME IS PRECIOUS AND UNLIKE OTHER SUBMISSIVE WOMEN, I AM NOT CONTENT WITH "CRUMBS" AND SMALL TALK. TRYING THAT WITH ME WILL GET YOU NOWHERE. 

BEING FLATTERED HERE AND THERE OR POPULAR ON SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS IS LIKE BEING RICH IN MONOPOLY BOARD GAME. IT'S USELESS! AS WELL AS PROPOSING THAT I WORK FOR YOU AND QUIT MY JOB, PROMISING "WORLDS AND FUNDS" OR EVEN THAT I ABANDON EVERYTHING TO BECOME YOUR "EXCLUSIVE"... IT'S A WASTE OF TIME!

 

KNOW HOW TO EVALUATE AN INTELLIGENT AND AMBITIOUS WOMAN WHEN YOU MEET ONE. I REALLY ENJOY MY INDEPENDENT LIFESTYLE, I EARN VERY WELL, AND THE "RETIREMENT" IS STILL FAR, SO THAT MEANS YOU WOULD HAVE TO BE A CONSISTENT MILLIONAIRE TO PROPOSE ME AN EXCLUSIVE DEAL THAT WOULD MAKE SENSE TO ME.

 BY ENTERING THE FINANCIAL DOMINATION FIELD, MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY FOR IT. EXPECT SURPRISES... I WILL FLIRT WITH YOU, PLAY WITH YOUR SEXUAL URGES, CHALLENGE YOU, AND TURN YOU ON IN ORDER TO GET WHAT I WANT.

 

FINALLY, I'LL REWARD YOU IN DIFFERENT WAYS THAT SHOULD BE PREVIOUSLY STIPULATED BY MUTUAL CONSENT (ALWAYS RESPECTING THE PRIVACY OF BOTH). THIS SHOULD WORK BASED ON DISCRETION AND RECIPROCITY... UNLIKE MARRIAGES WHERE YOU GET FINANCIALLY DOMINATED FOREVER (WITHOUT REALIZING) AND GET NOTHING BUT DEPRESSION IN RETURN.

IF YOU'RE NOT MATURE ENOUGH FOR THIS KIND OF PRACTICE, DON'T TRY TO FORCE AND/OR FAKE IT. CHOOSE TO BE AN AVERAGE CUSTOMER INSTEAD. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE APPRECIATED AND RECOGNIZED FOR BOOKING MY SERVICES AGAIN. 

KINDLY,

CATARINA